Monday, June 18, 2007

View On Aging

Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited about aging that you think in fractions. "How old are you?" "I'm four and a half!" You're never thirty-six and a half. You're four and a half, going on five! That's the key.

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead. "How old are you?" "I'm gonna be 16!" You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16!

And then the greatest day of your life . . .you become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony. YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There's no fun now, you're Just a sour-dumpling. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it's all slipping away.

Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.
But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60. You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70!

After that it's a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80's and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn't end there.

Into the 90s, you start going backwards; "I Was JUST 92."

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. "I'm 100 and a half!"

May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out non-essential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay "them."

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop."….And the devil's name is Alzheimer's!

4. Enjoy the simple things. Cause it’s really that simple.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on! The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. BE ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health. If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help!

9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them,…AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY!


Just to share!!

Sunday, May 06, 2007

Wet Wet Wet

I saw new update in the blog after a long time from busy people, since i think i the one who free most of the time, i should write something here....hehe

As some people know that Mia came visit me couple of days ago. She stayed in Malaysia for few days and after that we spent few days in Phuket, Thailand. I'm not going to write things or show picture neither about Phuket nor Malaysia cause i know someone will be a better job than me. All i can say is, i have to black list to go there in between April and May cause it's been raining since the first day till the last day we were there. We got wet all the time. Hope Mia has a good time.

After the trip i have a thought in my mind. Since all my cousins are all over the world, why don't we find some a time and have a trip as a gathering, isn't that a great idea? But dude, please don't say that "oh, we can have gathering at my place". And that's not gonna work, ok?

So cousins, consider about it....

By the way, Happy Belated Birthday Leah, that's the first time after so many years i say this to you, just like what i did to Kai, Silvia and Jennifer(hope the others birthday has not pass yet).

Saturday, April 07, 2007

4 with five passengers parachute

I found this joke on newspaper.

An aircraft is about to spiral out of control and crashed helicopter with five passengers, but only with 4 parachute.


One passenger said : "I was' a man 'Beckham, the most popular soccer star. If I died, The fans will be sad world; So I am not dead. "

So, he had a parachute and jump off the plane.

Second passenger said : "I was Anzuli Nuoqiaoli, the world's most beautiful woman. If I get killed The men around the world will regret. I can not die. "

She took a parachute jumping.

Third passenger said : "I was the President of the XXXX, XXXX, the world's most powerful people. In my country history is also the most intelligent President. My country and the world cannot do if i die, So I must not die. "

Finished, repeat the previous two moves, jump aircraft.

Pope Benedict was the fourth passenger.

He turned to the fifth passenger ─ a 10-year-old children, said : "I am Pope, I have old, I have done a part of life. You look so young, such as rising life, a bright future; As a religious sentiment of the people, I leave you with the last of a parachute! "

The children replied : "no, we have two parachutes. Earlier the most powerful, most intelligent, the most important president, He took my bags and jumped on……. "

Rely on the self-righteous right in this world who only see their own interests and personal preference. imposition of collective society.

Many of the tragedy, it appears.

The President is one, but not the only one.

Obstinate and stubborn, and thought to do good, but so is the bad.

Their hearts believe in "their" doctrines; Superman their rise to the level of trying to dominate the other's life.

Ultimately, the destruction caused by the results.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

ha chew!!!

During a discussion in my company few days ago, one of the Indian girl sneezed.

"In our culture, if you sneeze once, that means someone is missing you" one of the chinese told her. "If you sneeze twice, that means someone is saying nasty about you behind your back. And if you sneeze three times, which mean someone is speaking kindly about you."

"What if you sneeze four times?" the Indial girl asked curiously.

"That means, you, have cause a cold."

Hmmm...i think i caught a cold today

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

Thanks fo Mia, i felt my blog was alive....on your speaker loud Kai.......

Sunday, February 25, 2007

MySpace reactivate back....

I didn't know i got myspace account till i browse on Kai's myspace. Amazingly, i key in the correct email and password which i thought of trying my luck. Hmm, what to do next...oh, get friends....

yay...now i got new friends in my list, Kai and Leah....

Sunday, February 11, 2007

Life

Last time wherever shop i go, i will order back the same thing that i used to eat, this caused all the shops knew what i want everytime i went. Don't know why, i love to eat back the same thing, always. But i changed recently. I told myself while standing in front one of the restaurant that i can't always eat the same thing. I need to try new things, and has new breaking point. So i ordered something else, (even the worker in the shop has a shocked). Then i found out other than the thing i ate all the time, other things are nice too. Wait, if i keep eating the same thing, then i will not has the chance to try other good food. So from the thing i eat i learnt to change. If i don't like it, just change back.....

Before start to learn driving, i think that driving is a very cool thing. But after i learnt driving, i found out actually being a passanger can be cool too, it just two different kind of cool. When we saw others cool, we always forget that we are cool too......

If you ask me what is blue, i can clearly show you how's blue looks like. But if i see other kind of blue color, i might cannot tell you what is blue. If ask me what kind of girl i like, i can tell you roughly what kind of girl i like. If i see many many many people and you ask me the same question again, i might have doubt and don't know how to answer you. Is it the more you see, touch, the easier to lost the simply you?

It is better to be simple......

I like to play basketball, although i have bad shooting, most of the time being block while shoot. One time even break my teeth. The very last time i even break my ankle while playing basketball. But after i recover, i will go play basketball again. That is because the real like will not give up because of little setback.....

That's life

Monday, January 22, 2007

Garfield's Philosophy

I found it funny....and true...What you think?


Money is not everything. There's Mastercard and Visa.

One should love animals. They are so tasty.

Save water. Shower with your girlfriend/boyfriend.

Love the neighbour. But don't get caught.

Behind every sucessful man, there is a woman. But there are two for unsucessful man.

Every man should marry. After all, happiness is not the only thing in life.

The wise man never marry, and when they marry they beome otherwise.

Success is a relative term. It brings so many relatives.

Children in backseats casue accidents. Accidents in backseats cause children.

Your future depends on your dreams. So go to sleep.

There should be a better way to start a day than waking up every morning.

Hard work never killed anybody. But why take the risk?

Work fascinates me. I can look at it for hours.

God made relatives; Thank God we can choose our friends.

When two's company, three's the result!

Sunday, January 21, 2007

Peterpan

Found this lyrics translate from my friend, it was from an Indonesian band called Peterpan that wrote this. I'm not going to post the original lyrics as i know most of you can't read that. So i just post the translate lyrics. Their lyrics has a certain sadness.. but written beautifully. I think they're brilliant.


i'll say this nicely.. with sheer disappointment, my heart bleeds as hurt draws near. you gave me that wonderful feeling, but maybe i've misinterpreted it.. i thought it was love. yet my heart still thinks highly of you, my heart worships you, always thinks highly of you...

you broke my heart, you keep breaking it again.. and now my heart breaks everytime i look at you. you light up my soul, then take it away, my heart breaks even when i look at you... but my heart still longs for you, still is fond of you, always thinks highly of you...i keep falling and falling again. illusioned by things which will never be, things which i deem perfect but lost.. things that ends even before I begun

you break my heart, i cant take it anymore.. my heart breaks each time I look at you. you light up my soul, and yet took it away.. I cant even look at you.


i think words like these can only be expressed with a certain melancholic sadness.. but its beautiful. Absolutely beautiful.

Wednesday, December 27, 2006

Earthquake At Taiwan

Read newspaper and found out that there's earthquake in north part of Taiwan....It's early morning now can't get to contact anyone....hope 3rd Uncle and friends who stayed there are alright....

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Merry Christmas And Happy New Year!

Wow, time flies fast....it's already end of 2006 and yet, i still not achieve anything yet so far....it's been kinda hard year this year....hope everything will
be better next year (though every year i wish for that).

Of course gonna wish all my beloved uncles, aunts and cousins that all around the world Happy Christmas Eve, Christmas, New Year Eve And New Year in advanced. Also same to all my friends around the world who will see this....:D

Nothing much celebration for this year....stay at home mostly....it's better than stuck in the jam out there every year....How bout you fellow there?

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

How do you forget unhappy things?

Have a friend told me that her friend normaly will write those unhappy things on a piece of paper, then she will throw the paper into the toilet bowl and flush it away, and she will feel that all the unhappy things and problems will follow the flush away. Sounds like easy, but is there a way really can 'flush' away memory? And what if it can't be flush away? Hmm...she will wasted a piece of paper i think. In fact, don't know we can write all the unhappy staff on only a piece of paper. Sometimes something is just hard to describe by words.

Well, maybe that's her unique way. Everyone has their own way to forget unhappy things in their mind. For me, I'll hang out with friends, have a luxury meal, my concerntration will be on the bill when it's time to pay. Kinda work but a new problems will come when the month end comes. Sometimes will go for a movie, a good movie might make me think of it all the time and intend to watch it again. But what if the movie turn out suckie?

Hmm....do you have your own unique way? Why not share it here?

Monday, November 13, 2006

Forced to launch.....

Seems like everyone started to update their own blog so i think i shouldn't be left out, in stead of posting things about someone else, like Bryan.

Begining of the month receive a note from the house owner. hhmm....it's a bit early to remind to pay the rental this month. But after read it, i found out it's another story. It said that i have to shift out by end of the month cause the contract end soon. No wonder i feel like the house is getting empty nowadays. Seems like i'm the last to know, cause i stay at the back room? Never mind bout that, really need to be hurry to find a new place with my little time left or else i will be homeless. I wouldn't want to stay with friends for short while cause i feel uncomfortable. Plan to find the whole house to rent so that can stay with my dad. The extra room will be reserve for anyone of you who come here to stay. Save up a lot of money for hotel......:D

Recently suddenly feel like something missing. I guess i need to take a course to study again but not sure what is good to study now. Sugggestions anyone?

Tuesday, November 07, 2006

Update of Bryan




Bryan has turn 4 months years old now. If you still wondering who's Bryan, he's my nephew, oh, should be our nephew among the cousins. Here's some update picture of his from my sisters. The elder he grow, the more i found out he looks like me when i was a baby....

Wednesday, November 01, 2006

Stress

Time passed very fast, all the working stress moment already over. Well, last week was the Malay's New Year. Most of the employees in my company are malays, so happen that most of them had holiday to go back to their home town(most of them are not local). The nightmare came since that week. The official holidays were like around 2 days but all of them took extra leaves so that they can spend more time at home(or with friends) during the festival.

The office was like a war after 2 days of holiday even though there's only few of us. Many things need to be rush, extra stress than usual. It's hard to describe with words and the fact was i don't even know how to describe it. Maybe a picture can tells a lot.....haha

Friday, October 06, 2006

Bryan pic Update










Hear a lot from my mom bout him....can't wait to go back and see my cute little bryan...:D

Sunday, September 24, 2006

Complicated Feel For Today

The girl i like, sent me a message today. Well, we always keep in touch before this. The reason i said suddenly she sent me a message, it's because she told me she already broke off with her boy friend.

At the first few sentence i thought it was some joke or fwd message. After I read finish the whole message, only know that it's about her. I always thought that they are happy together, and i never ask her things about them, because i don't wanna ask such question, and get answers that she's happy with her, though i want her to be happy.

Know her for quite long...8 years? I can't remember. She's from other country, so we used chat through internet and phone. There's few times we talk till the whole day, no idea what have we talk. Been many times plan to visit her, but always end up can't make it. Maybe that's the reason i lost the chance.

I still remember that day she told me, told me she had a boy friend. I am totally quiet, and only listen to what she said. Now think about it, long term relationship is not a easy thing to maintain.

From that day onward, i try to call her less, till rarely talk to her. I want her to forget me, or better to say i want to forget her. I try hard but i can't, so recently we keep in touch again just like old time.

hmm, is it a second chance this time i wonder.

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Always stuck in new things......:(

Have you all change your blog into beta yet? i kinda regret now to change into beta without reading any rules and regulation or whatever bla bla bla....all i know now was, i can't post a comment on any of the blog, especially those already does not allow anonymous comments....duh....

why everytime i post a comment they will say the account use does not exist? duh, i use it to sign in....can anyone help the old cousin to solve the problem?

Monday, August 21, 2006

Few days ago get to know Wei and Min go back to Taiwan for holiday (Texas, Taiwan, next will be Malaysia??). Saw their pictures from their Taiwan cousin's blog. Suddenly i felt that everyone that i haven't seen so long has change a lot, Wei, Min, their parent, Kai, Leah, Uncle Bill, Kiat, Bin (these 2 fellow nothing much to change as i usually see then often...) Wei and Min's dad grow old a lot, their mom....hhmm, still as sweety as usual, :D. And i realise all my cousins, are no more the vision that in my mind anymore.

Kai has grown up, no more bunch of toys to share like last time, wondering still act weird sometimes or not like last time, still like A & W fried chicken till wants to remind everyone to order it after swimming(cause the pool was just beside the restaurant, remember?)

Leah grown up as well. All i remember that she always wear her extra size yellow color singlet(is that what they call?), and she cry a lot cause Kai likes to show her his power fist. And everytime she will 'mummy, mummy' before start asking anything. I still keep some pictures of her with her sexy wear.

Wei and Min (Silvia and Jennifer) grown up too. They used to be very tiny little baby to me. Nothing much memory about them just know that they are cute, chubby and like them very much that's all. Well, only see them not more than 3 times, can't expect more.

Wonder what changes they have in the future. Really wanna meet them up one day....